When You Visit

Visiting a new church can be intimidating.

What should I wear? Where do I park? Where do my kids go?

We understand the many thoughts that can come from visiting a new church, so we want you to feel completely comfortable when you arrive. Below are some frequently asked questions. If you have any additional questions, don't hesitate to contact us or talk with a greeter when you visit.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I wear?

We want you to feel comfortable. After all, we are thrilled that you’re joining us and want you to focus more on the service than what you wear. In the summertime, it’s not uncommon to see people wearing sandals, shorts, and a shirt with a collar. Others prefer to put on their “Sunday best,” and that’s fine too! However, we request that shorts be at least knee length (no “short-shorts”) and that, generally, clothing be respectable and modest.

How do I get to Holy Redeemer?

Our parish is located at 57 Highland Ave. Chatham, MA 02633. Here is a map.

Where should I park?

Holy Redeemer Parish has a large parking lot situated next to the church.

Where do my children go?

We are overjoyed that you are bringing your children. Children assure us that new life is entering the Church. The 10 A.M. Mass has a weekly Children’s Liturgy of the Word. At that time, scripture readings are taught at a level more relatable to children. It allows parents to listen to the readings and homily without being distracted by fussing children. If you prefer to keep your children with you, but they become distracting to others, you can move to the church’s narthex, where seats are provided, and you can participate in the Mass through the glass partitions.

I’m not Catholic, how do I know when to sit, stand and kneel?

There’s no need to be self-conscious about the postures and responses used during worship. Most visitors follow the lead of our parishioners. However, we do have worship aids located in each pew that provide you with the order of the Mass, the postures, and the words to each prayer. If you don’t see a worship aid in your pew, ask an usher, and they will be happy to bring you one.

I’m not Catholic, is it okay for me to participate in communion?

For Catholics, Communion- or The Eucharist- is the most intimate expression of our faith. Catholics believe the host becomes the Real Presence of the body of Christ, transformed from bread by the priest presiding over the Mass. Most Protestants believe Communion is only symbolic and have different beliefs than Catholics and Orthodox Christians, who believe it is a sacrament and the true presence of Christ. So, if you are not Catholic, we ask you not to receive Communion. You are encouraged to remain in the pews and reflect on the presence of Christ in your life.

Am I expected to put money in the offering?

If you visit with us, we don’t expect you to put money into the offering. You are welcome to let the offertory basket pass by. If you consider our parish your church home, we’d love you to prayerfully consider giving weekly. Check or cash are accepted during the service, or you can sign up for online giving here. 

Is the church handicapped accessible? 

Yes, there is an elevator just inside the ground-level door of the parking lot entrance. There are four accessible parking spaces just outside that door and several along the street in front of the church.